Hey, Anmol I’m afraid of this relationship stuff. I’m scared yet my anxiety level gets high whenever I’m thinking about it. At times the butterfly stars flying whenever I’m thinking about this but I don’t understand this concept of relationship and you know what i have been grown up with many flaws and I am wondering whether the person will accept me.
Anmol- Arya, why you’re thinking much about this relationship stuff. You know what everyone has their own flaws. Have u ever seen the full moon, Isn’t that beautiful to watch the shining moon with the blanket of stars?
But my dear Arya, do u know Even the moon has the dark spot. No need to worry about your flaws nor your anxiety should be high with this relationship. Ok, let me make it simple for you
Isn’t it nice to find someone who understands you, someone who knows how to listen to all that’s going on in your head, and someone who never judges you but take time to comprehend why you’re hurt, happy, or sad?
Does it feel comforting to know that you are not as unlovable as you think you are because all your previous relationships gave you nothing but pain and a mindset that you will never find someone who can match the intensity of the love that you try to give your loved ones?
Yes, it’s nice and wonderful.
Yes, it feels good and comforting.
But you know what Arya, People take relationships for granted these days; we have lost the true meaning of love. The desire to take relationships as fast as well; thinking if we are treated as special and we feel comfortable hanging out with someone, that can already be considered a ‘relationship.’
You know what, some people don’t find it hard to fake emotions or to fake feelings. This is the reason why ‘false hopes’ exist and you’re afraid of this relationship stuff. Some people are masters of fabricating lies because they do everything to get what they want, not minding if they’ll be hurting others because of their fake acts And on the other hand, some people get fooled because they trust so easily, they don’t think for a second that others would hurt them intentionally.
Some people are so good in treating you special while not letting you know that you’re just one of their collections or choices that they need to weigh, before finally settling to that person they ‘want to be with.’ Some people are so good with their words – poetic, lyrical, whimsical – but contrived, feigned, and devised. Some people are so good at faking love and leave you with your knees on the ground after you’ve fallen into their traps.
It’s tiring to be hurt over and over, it’s exhausting to get betrayed by people you trust the most – it’s time to realize that game time is over, now is the moment you learn to prioritize yourself.
No, it’s not wrong to desire the love that you want but what’s wrong is to let yourself feel the pain most of the time. You don’t deserve someone who comes to you when it’s convenient and leaves you after when they’ve found someone better.You deserve more than just the option.You deserve to be taken out on dates.You deserve to be treated like a prince or a princessbecause you deserve a love storythat will end in “Happily ever after.”